Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Self Confidence!!

A business executive was deep in debt and could see no way out. Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment. He sat on the park bench, head in hands, wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.
    
Suddenly an old man appeared before him. "I can see that something is troubling you," he said. After listening to the executive's woes, the old man said, "I believe I can help you."
    
He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, "Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time." The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller, then one of the richest men in the world!
    
"I can erase my money worries in an instant!" he realized. But instead, the executive decided to put the un-cashed check in his safe. Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.
    
With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment. He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.
    
One year later, he returned to the park with the un-cashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared. But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.
    
"I'm so glad I caught him!" she cried. "I hope he hasn't been bothering you. He's always escaping from the home and telling people he's John D. Rockefeller."And she led the old man away.
    
The astonished executive just stood there, stunned. All year long he'd been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him.
    
Suddenly, he realized that it wasn't the money that had turned his life around. It was his newfound self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after.

What is Maturity?

What is Maturity?


Maturity is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violence or destruction. 


Maturity is to have patience. 


Maturity is the willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of the long-term gain. 


Maturity is perseverance, the ability to sweat out a project or a situation in spite of heavy opposition and discouraging set-backs. 


Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness and frustration, discomfort and defeat, without complaint or collapse.


Maturity is humility. It is being big enough to say, "I was wrong." And, when right, the mature person need not experience the satisfaction of saying, "I told you so."


Maturity is the ability to make a decision and stand by it. The immature spend their lives exploring endless possibilities; then they do nothing. 


Maturity is the art of living in peace with that which we cannot change, the courage to change that which should be changed -- and the wisdom to know the difference.


Maturity is not about talking BIG things, but understanding SMALL things!!

Monday, March 8, 2010

POLICIES!!

I work in a reputed Organisation. I have learnt a lot from there. One strange thing I learnt out there is POLICIES! This word is used to the core to cover the insufficiency of the Organisation. You have an issue in mind? be ware there are Policies around! You can not come out of this web ever! You want to start your day in office with a bright mind? there is a policy coming in to screw your day ahead. You need to work in peace? there is another policy to make you violent. You plan to donate your extra effort? there comes a policy to restrict your potential. I wonder if these policies are actually made for employees. I guess they are made to tame the wild thinkers and observers and performers so that they do not go beyond their power. These policies make sure that you do not grow more than you are required to. They make sure you get frustrated and end up with some mess somewhere so that they can grab you with another policy to court marshal you! Policy is a wonderful jargon which I have learnt in this wonderful corporate! I might use it some day! LOL!